About Us

Who we are

Harmonize provides coaching, courses, and consulting for mission driven individuals, teams, and groups who want to improve how they work together.

People

We are organizational development experts with backgrounds in education, law, business, and organizing, and over 30 combined years of experience. We use our See, Be & Work Together framework and our Power, Belonging, and Justice (PBJ) lens to provide holistic support attuned to the needs of humans working together. 

We help groups uplevel their skills across all dimensions of organizational life including:
Simon Mont
Co-Founder
Tamila Gresham
Co-Founder

Our Vision

People have used many different words to describe the world we want to see. Some call it freedom or liberation.  We call it Harmony.

Harmony looks like Justice at every scale.

Our Mission

Change organizations. Change the world. 

Many share our vision of Harmony but struggle to move from vision to impact. Put simply, the way we’re working together isn’t working. We need to be able to create and collaborate according to our values.
We need to Harmonize.

Our mission is to equip organizations and movements with the tools, skills, & mindsets needed to achieve liberatory visions at scale and achieve Harmony.

Our Approach

To achieve Harmony we need

A unifying way of seeing our world 
A healthy way of being human 
A liberating way of working together 

Our holistic approach creates shared ways of Seeing, Being, and Working Together in order to create organizational harmony.

We use our holistic Organizational Map to understand, assess, and develop the component parts of an organization,  including often overlooked dimensions such as individual development (being) and political analysis (seeing).

Power, Belonging, & Justice

We don’t just do DEI, we go deeper to help organizations address fundamental issues and build systems that enable successful collaboration.

Far too often DEI as a framework fails to create meaningful change or advance the deeper values it champions.

Our Power, Belonging, & Justice (PBJ) lens – developed from over 30 collective years of helping organizations work better together – has proven to be more effective and transformative.

By thoughtfully applying the principles of Power & Belonging, we can create Justice at every scale. Each of these three elements impact how and what humans create together.

Our in-depth and customized training brings groups together to learn to assess the following:

  • Power: Who can do what?
  • Belonging: Who is in, who is out, who benefits, and why?
  • Justice: What outcomes are acceptable, and how do we account for the unacceptable, in the past, present, and future?

 

Through our training, we’re confident that your organization will be equipped with effective tools to build a more harmonious environment and culture.

Values

Joy

We believe in the healing power of joy and that joy in the face of oppression can be a revolutionary act. Despite oppressive circumstances and conditions, we choose joy. 

We resist despair and depletion by intentionally creating space for joy, laughter, silliness, and the softest parts of our humanity. Joy is the choice we make to align with Harmony in the midst of disharmony. We intentionally create joy through humor and laughter as a form of self-care that connects us to our gratitude, hope, and inner children. Intentional joy is also a tool of liberation that we use to both cope with the world as it is and sustain us as we co-create the world that we want to see. 

The journey of liberation is long. We experience joy as the wind in our sails and the cool breeze that refreshes us. 

In facilitation, we intentionally invite authentic joy, as the thread that weaves collaboration, communication, and trust. 

Nuance & Precision

We realize that there are many ways to look at a situation.  We are very reluctant to make blanket statements or rush to permanently label people, ideas, or actions.  We value using discernment & patience to have the right conversation in the right order at the right time. We value the process of argumentation and difference, not as antagonism, but as a way of exploring an issue in depth.  

We hold many layers of complexity and interconnection. Different moments require different types of interventions. 

We listen deeply so that we can take intentional action that honors all of the rippling impacts that will occur from our choices. This often appears as prioritization of process; because we trust that when process allows us to come together in new and healthier ways, the outcomes are almost always more liberatory. 

Fierce Grace

We hold high standards of conduct and clear boundaries against harm in order to call forth the best in all of us.  We honor the human goodness in each person while also recognizing that some behavior has no place in our community. 

We understand ourselves to all be works in progress who come to this work with different histories, personalities, struggles, and idiosyncrasies. We believe that we are strongest as a movement when we can meet each other where we are;  invite ourselves and each other into deeper levels of integrity with our liberatory values; and constantly deepen our political analysis and understanding.

We aim to create spaces that allow learning and mistakes but that do not perpetuate harm. We are committed to bringing out the best in each other through an artful combination of forgiveness, permission, boundaries, and direct feedback. Further, we recognize that direct feedback about how we are missing the mark can actually be an act of love that calls us deeper into who we want to be.

We call this balance of understanding our flawed humanity, commitment to each other’s dignity and giftedness, maintenance of high standards of conduct, and protection from harm, “Fierce Grace.” We explicitly practice fierce grace with each other and with those who grant us the trust and privilege to facilitate space with them.

Integrity

We are dedicated to shedding layers of illusion, conditioning, and any internalized oppressive ways of thinking within ourselves.  We see every moment as an opportunity to liberate ourselves and one another.

We believe that there is no point talking about it if we can’t be about it.

And, at the same time, there is no way to fully be about it. And talking about it is not only sometimes a way to be about it, but also a way of reminding us what we are trying to be about. 

Recognizing where we miss the mark, owning, and sharing it is an opportunity to return to integrity inside ourselves. The opportunity to notice where we are/not showing up the way we want to & come deeper into alignment is a gift. The feedback we give and receive is an invitation to reflect on if/where we missed the mark. 

We are here to see our own part and to own that for ourselves. When conflict inevitably arises, each individual is focused on their process, not each other’s. We aren’t here to get others to see their part and/or apologize to us. 

Witnessing each other reveal how we really want to be and return to integrity helps rebuild trust. As each person takes the leap, it encourages everyone else to do the same.

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Simon Mont

Growing up, my family played a lot of board games, which meant I was always learning systems of rules, accomplishing goals, and relating that intimately to my sense of familial connection. In a way, I’m still doing that, co-creating systems that blend rules, relationships, strategies, and purpose. I feel blessed to be able to do that with inspiring people in service of our healing and liberation. I have been focused on collective liberation for as long as I can remember, though I didn’t always call it that.

It began as a deep sense of justice, fairness, and belonging largely informed by my Jewishness, growing up with a brother with a disability, and being raised by parents who made sure I understood my positionality in global systems. This fire for justice and integrity has been the primary guide for my life. It has led me on a journey of reflection, confrontation, healing, and action to shake loose the social conditioning I inherited and become an agent for the political, economic, and spiritual liberation of all; including myself.

I bring a decade of experience as an alternative economies lawyer, facilitator, and organizer in a variety of communities. I’ve been a canvasser in DC, an organizer in Oakland, and a school teacher in South Arkansas. I’ve sat in circles at San Quentin Prison and Burning Man. I’ve been zip-tied in police vans, and in camouflage in hunting tree stands. I’ve held hands to sing and to block traffic. Nowadays I shuttle between North Carolina and California, cross-pollinating the worlds of grassroots organizing, business, technology, and wealth.

Tamila Gresham

My therapist once reflected to me that my “core value is Justice.” I’m still parsing whether that is something I choose, how I cope, or a result of being born in Birmingham, Alabama into poverty and a body labeled Black, queer, and female. Whatever the causes, the result has been 15 years of collaboration with leaders across legal, academic, nonprofit, and business spheres to transform power structures, policies, and culture to create justice and belonging. 

I started out teaching Black & Brown 6th graders how to read & write. Now I’ve taught over 75 organizations the adult equivalent of reading & writing – how to work together. In between, I became a professional advocate (read: recovering lawyer), left a job at the California DOJ and started organizing and giving money to Black teachers. I led People work at a (big, national) nonprofit, founded one (not as big) of my own, and raised tens of thousands of dollars for others. I taught C-Suite folks about white supremacy and entertainment execs why representation matters. I wrote open letters, blogs, fanfiction, as well as curriculum for personal and organizational development. All in pursuit of the thing my soul calls Justice.

I’ve been called a lot of things while doing this work. Some kind, some cruel, but the most humbling has been “educator.” It speaks to the soft, courageous part of the still little Black girl in me that’s just trying to help us unlearn the lies we believe, like white supremacy & patriarchy trying to make me hate me. In protecting her, I’ve grown my passion and praxis for justice, focusing these days on supporting the best changemakers we’ve got–humans working together.